Our community gathers in many ways — casual, curated, and everything in between.

  • Our weekly small group events are led by members — usually 2 to 6 women — and center around meaningful conversation, personal stories, and thoughtful topics.


    Whether it’s a journaling circle, a career coffee chat, or an “ask me anything,” these gatherings are designed for depth, not size.

  • Hosted by the Bonjour Girls team, these medium-sized events happen throughout the month — from cocktail nights and creative salons to picnics, panels, and more.

    Each one carries its own theme and energy, and some are invitation-only for Bonjour Friends and above, to keep the space intentional and just the right size.

  • Our biggest event of the year, held every November, brings together 200+ women across industries and cities.

    We invite incredible speakers to share their journeys, host panels around identity and work, and end the night with an open social hour that feels both powerful and personal.

Small Circles, Big Impact.

Every week, our members host small-group gatherings — think 2 to 6 women around a table, talking honestly about career, identity, joy, and everything in between.

  • 💼 Career Chats

    Hosted by members across industries, these gatherings offer space to talk about ambition, challenges, and growth — all in a relaxed setting that prioritizes depth over formality.

  • 🎨 Creative Workshops

    Led by members with different talents, these hands-on sessions invite you to create, learn, and share skills together, from writing and design to everyday creativity

  • 🌿 Wellness

    These gatherings help members reconnect with themselves and others — whether through walks, personal check-ins, or guided conversations about inner life and emotional wellbeing.

  • 💡 Themed Discussions

    Centered on thoughtful topics like identity, relationships, or personal values, these gatherings invite members to connect through meaningful conversation

Feeling like you missed a lot?

No worries — we’re always gathering. All our events are hosted on Luma, and spots tend to fill up fast. If something catches your eye, be sure to RSVP early so you don’t miss the next one.

Official themed events hosted by us

Curated Moments, Shared Together

From panels to picnics, cocktail nights to creative workshops — our events shift with the seasons and the energy of the moment.
What stays the same is our purpose: building community through thoughtful connection.

Explore Membership

Some of our events are shared first with Bonjour Friends and above to help keep the space cozy and intentional. Our free membership program accepts new applications every quarter — if you're interested, you can learn more and apply below.

Flagship Event

HERs: Our Annual Celebration

Once a year, 200+ women come together to celebrate, reflect, and look forward. We invite speakers to share their journeys — and we create a space that feels like home, even with hundreds in the room.

Hers 2024

Everything You Feel in the Room

We put thought into everything you see, feel, and taste because creating a meaningful experience starts with care.
If you’d like to contribute, you can support as a volunteer or through a donation, every bit helps us grow this community.

Follow our journey.